Al Roker's Family Album With His 3 Kids: Photos | Us Weekly

In 1954, Al Roker was born into a world where fathers were expected to be the unyielding backbone of the family—stoic, strong, and unshakable.

For Roker, the beloved Today show anchor, this cultural expectation shaped his identity as a father to his three children: Courtney, 38, Leila, 26, and Nick, 23.

His role was clear: protect, provide, and shield his children from fear or pain. So, when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer in September 2020, the weight of that diagnosis wasn’t just physical—it was emotional.

The hardest part wasn’t the grueling treatments or sleepless nights; it was the fear of telling his children and the possibility that they might see him as fragile, no longer the invincible father they knew.

Roker’s instinct was to protect his children by keeping them in the dark. He worried that revealing his diagnosis would burden them, shattering the image of the father who always had everything under control.

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“We’re the dad. We’re supposed to be there for our kids, not the other way around,” Roker explained, reflecting the mindset of his generation. The thought of his children worrying about him felt like a failure of his role as their protector.

Yet, he knew he couldn’t hide the truth forever, especially with his wife, Deborah Roberts, by his side, encouraging openness and honesty.

When Roker finally sat down with Courtney, Leila, and Nick to share the news, he braced himself for their fear or sadness.

He and Deborah had meticulously researched his condition and crafted a treatment plan, hoping to reassure their children that everything was under control. What he didn’t expect was the profound shift that would follow.

Instead of retreating or crumbling, his children stepped forward with love, concern, and a quiet strength that mirrored his own. They didn’t see him as diminished; they saw him as human, and they wanted to be there for him.

This response was a revelation for Roker. “They were there [for me],” he said, marveling at their willingness to support him. “You get to a point where you just kind of give it up and say, ‘Okay, they’re here to make sure I’m okay, and that’s fine.’”

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This moment cracked open his long-held belief that a father’s role was solely to shield. Instead, he learned that allowing his children to care for him fostered a deeper, more mutual bond. It was a gift—an emotional turning point that brought him to tears, not out of weakness, but out of gratitude for the love and strength his children showed.

This experience reshaped Roker’s view of fatherhood. He realized that vulnerability didn’t weaken his role; it enriched it.

By letting his children see him in a moment of struggle, he allowed them to step into their own strength, creating a reciprocal relationship that transcended traditional roles.

This shift didn’t just help Roker through his cancer journey—it redefined his legacy as a father, proving that true strength lies in connection, not control.