Some people weather chaos with volume — raised voices, hurried decisions, anxious footsteps pacing the room. But Jenna Bush Hager says her mother, former First Lady Laura Bush, possesses an entirely different kind of strength… one that is felt more than heard.

In a heartfelt reflection originally shared with Southern Living, Jenna — now a mother of three herself — opened up about the maternal force who shaped her childhood, her confidence, and even the home she is trying to build for her own children.

“She has a grace about her,” Jenna said. “She’s unflappable. Even in moments that were unspeakably turbulent, she was the steady force that kept us calm.”

Jenna and her twin sister Barbara grew up deeply loved but under extraordinary circumstances. There were the early years in Texas, where they learned to ride bikes and devour books — and then came the chapter where home included secret service agents, gates, and the weight of the White House. But if living in the political spotlight ever felt overwhelming, Jenna insists her mother made sure that threshold between the outside world and their family life was a protected space.

“No one was ever tense,” she explained. “Nobody was walking on eggshells.”

Laura’s calm wasn’t the kind born from silence or avoidance — it came from an intentional choice to show her children that safety can exist even when life becomes unpredictable. She created a home where both girls were allowed to be themselves, not mirror images of one another, despite being twins constantly compared by the outside world.

“My mother never once compared Barbara and me,” Jenna recalled. She smiles at the memory — because that lesson has imprinted itself on the next generation. “I try hard not to compare my girls.”

As a public school teacher and librarian before entering public life, Laura Bush carried her love of reading into motherhood — and later, grand-motherhood. Inside the Bush home, books weren’t assignments; they were adventures, comforts, escapes, and conversations waiting to happen. And this tradition still shapes Jenna, who now leads the enormously popular Read With Jenna book club, encouraging others to find the same joy she discovered curled up with her mom years ago.

“She introduced us to the wonderful feeling of falling in love with books,” Jenna said.

Now married to Henry Hager and mother to Mila, Poppy, and little Hal, Jenna tries to channel her mom’s peaceful presence as she navigates parenthood. When big emotions take over — sadness, frustration, confusion — she says they don’t rush to shut them down. They allow their kids to feel deeply, to talk openly, to process safely.

“We tell them that being who they are is great and makes their dad and me so proud,” she explained. It’s the same assurance she grew up hearing from the quiet strength in her home — a reminder that love doesn’t demand perfection; it celebrates individuality.

As a grandmother, Laura Bush may be even more relaxed — something Jenna lovingly teases about. Gone are the routines and rules of raising daughters under a microscope. Now, Laura embraces the joy, the mess, the magic — fully leaning into the role where the only job is to love.

“It’s so fun to watch my mom and dad with my little ones,” Jenna said. “There really aren’t many rules — the kids can just be themselves.”

That freedom, Jenna believes, is one of the greatest gifts a parent or grandparent can give.

Looking back, the TV host recognizes that her mother didn’t push with lectures or demands. Instead, she guided by example — a gentle nudge here, a thoughtful invitation there. When she wanted her daughters to broaden their world, she didn’t issue orders. She extended opportunities. “There’s this great place you should see,” she’d say — and suddenly, they were volunteering or discovering new passions, simply because Mom offered the doorway.

Laura’s subtle leadership style, Jenna admits, was her superpower.

As she raises her own children — while working, writing books, and hosting a national television show — Jenna often reflects on the foundation her mother built for her. A foundation strong enough to withstand political pressure, teenage rebellion, and the complexities of an ordinary-extraordinary life.

“She helped me become a better parent,” Jenna said simply.

The tribute arrives like a stitched-together memory quilt — snapshots of storytimes, calm guidance, laughter, and quiet enveloping reassurance. It is a reminder that parenthood isn’t defined by dramatic speeches or perfect decisions. Sometimes the most powerful lesson a child can receive is the feeling that no matter what storm is brewing, there is someone in the room who will stay steady.

Mother’s Day might still be weeks away, but Jenna doesn’t need a holiday to appreciate the woman who showed her what love looks like under pressure. In today’s fast, noisy world — and in Jenna’s very public life — that unshakable calm remains one of her mother’s greatest legacies.

And now, Jenna safeguards that same ripple of peace in her own home — proof that some parenting lessons aren’t just learned… they’re lived forward.